Are You Doing All of the Right Things While Trying to Conceive and Nothing is Working?
I was talking to a client yesterday and it made me wonder if you might be hitting this too. She said, “I am doing ALL the “right” things. What is going on?” Does that feel familiar at all? So I listened to her list of to-do’s and got exhausted just hearing it. I challenged her why she thinks these are the “right” things. “How do you really know what that is?” “Because that is what everyone says I should do.”
She was doing these “right things” but she felt completely powerless.
She then went on to tell me she hated her job, wasn’t over her last miscarriage, and had a deep resentment of having to eat healthier. And, her yoga class felt like work. Oh dear. So I told her, “Life can only flow if it is allowed to flow. How we think about our situation will be a clue into how we are holding our energy.” Next I asked her, “Do you feel “safe”? She burst into tears, “no, I haven’t felt safe in a long time!”